Have you ever believed something about yourself that wasn’t true? Maybe as a kid, you were told you were “not sporty” or “a crybaby,” and you ended up carrying those labels with you throughout your life because that’s what you were taught to believe.
This week on the podcast I shared all about the Water Bondage scene the night before. This turned out to be a profoundly peaceful experience – and not at all what I was expecting. In this video I wanted to go a little deeper into the mindset that I was in during this scene.
This week on the podcast we were talking about shame – particularly shame that comes up when our kinks don’t align with out personal values. I had a personal story that I cut out of the podcast – just because it’s a bit heavy- but I thought it would be more appropriate to share here.
You are such a good girl / boy. Well done for clicking on this writing. I’m so proud of you for being curious, and wanting to learn more about this kink! 😛
Praise kink has been blowing up on TikTok lately… and before you roll your eyes, I actually think it is great whenever kink is being shared in a positive way on mainstream social media!
I wanted to share a personal story about a time when my boundaries were crossed. I think this story shows that sometimes we have boundaries that we rather weren’t there – and that’s ok too!
I was asked this exact question recently, and it really got me thinking… Since being involved in BD$M I have gotten a lot better at communicating boundaries, but I still find it very difficult to say “no.” There are so many valid reasons why this seemingly simple task is so difficult – it risks conflict, breaking connection, and hurting peoples feelings.
Sharing some of the more personal stuff I left out of this week’s podcast episode (#24). What it was like to experience being “spit roasted” for the first time, as well as talking about some of the feelings of shame I went through after.
Let me tell you an awkward story… About 2 years ago I caught up for a drink with a friend of mine – lets call
As a kid, I was terrified of needles. To be honest, I’m not a big fan of them as an adult either, but as a
In the bedroom, one of my favorite feelings is being objectified. It turns me on like crazy! For example, when Slade fucks me from behind,
