How can I help?
Feeling Disconnected from Your Desires?
Many people suppress their true desires due to societal norms, shame, or personal values, leading to frustration in their sex life and relationships. I can help you uncover and embrace these parts of yourself, integrating them into your life in a healthy, consensual, and exciting way!
Seeking to Heal and Build Trust in Your Relationship?
Past traumas and unresolved issues can create barriers to intimacy and trust in relationships. Exploring kink can address these wounds and rebuild trust with your partner. I offer guidance to help you navigate this journey, fostering a deeper connection and a more resilient relationship.
Difficulty Communicating Your Needs and Boundaries?
Effective communication is crucial for healthy relationships, yet many struggle to express their needs and set boundaries. Whether in a relationship or single, learning to articulate your desires and limits is essential. I provide tools and support to help you communicate confidently with your partner(s
Hi, I'm Harley
I am a somatic sexologist, specialising in kink and BDSM.
For a long time, I was ashamed of my desires, feeling like I wasn’t normal or that there was something wrong with me. I felt bored by the sex I was having, and I almost gave up on sex and intimacy altogether.
A turning point came when I discovered kink and finally started embracing my true desires. Experimenting with sensual shibari, power exchange, sensation play, CNC, and other types of kink has allowed me to discover a deeply personal and unique part of myself that I wasn’t able to reach in my vanilla life.
Embracing kink has helped me sooth past wounds, build trust and deep connection with my partner, and foster a vibrant, fulfilling intimate life. I realised that what society deems “normal” is an extremely narrow view, and there’s so much more on the menu…
Why work with me?
Expertise in Kink and BDSM
Specialized knowledge to help you navigate and embrace your kinks.
Somatic Approach
Engage with your body to unlock deeper understanding and pleasure.
Safe and Non-Judgemental Space
A welcoming environment where you can explore your desires without fear or shame.
