Collar me, own me
Collars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and are extremely popular kinky items! So why is that? Why are so many people into the idea of being collared and ‘owned?’ Why are so many others into the idea of ‘owning’ someone else? Particularly if that person is a beloved partner?
Backstage: My collar collection! (episode #26)
I thought I’d ‘Show & Tell’ about my growing collar collection. In this video I talk about each of my different collars and what they mean to me and why. Plus I show off my brand new steel collar from hardrrr.com, which is just about my favorite thing ever! (Well… maybe aside from my cage).
The Many Faces of ‘Free Use’
‘Free use’ is a kink that’s been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately – which is causing a lot of people to feel curious about what it means. The best definition I could find, defines Free Use as: “An arrangement between two consenting adults. One partner has the liberty to initiate sex […]
Backstage: My biggest free use fantasy (episode #25)
Let me tell you about my biggest Free Use Fantasy! This one involves having a weekend away with a group of consenting kinksters, to indulge in a free-use weekend – where everyone is available for the taking. This video is in addition to episode #25 of my podcast Turns Out I’m Into It – available everywhere you listen to podcasts!
What’s so Good About a Threesome?
Ever fantasized about a threesome? If so, you’re definitely not alone. For women, romantic culture teaches us that we are NOT into threesomes. We are supposed to want passionate, loving sex with one partner, and how dare you suggest anything otherwise! It also teaches us that men are the ones with the threesome fantasy, and […]
Backstage: What it was like being “spit-roasted” (episode #24)
Sharing some of the more personal stuff I left out of this week’s podcast episode (#24). What it was like to experience being “spit roasted” for the first time, as well as talking about some of the feelings of shame I went through after.
Used
Enter a dystopian future, where women have no rights, and are used as pleasure slaves to service the male workforce. Listen, as one pleasure slave is strapped inside a company “Relief Station,” with all her holes exposed.
Used
Why I Love the Traffic Light System
Remember that moment in Batman vs Superman when they are trying to kill each other, until they realise both of their mums are called “Martha” – then they stop fighting and suddenly become best friends? Lol. That scene always makes me laugh, and for years after my safeword was “Martha.” Safewords are an important part […]
The Things I Don’t Tell my Vanilla Friends…
Let me tell you an awkward story… About 2 years ago I caught up for a drink with a friend of mine – lets call her Kate. Kate is a passionate feminist. Feminism isn’t something I particularly identify with myself, though I do agree with it’s core values, and I appreciate that my friend is […]
