The Catharsis of CNC

When I posted photos of a recent CNC photoshoot on Fetlife last night, it felt like I was sharing a very intimate part of myself. It’s a side of me that very few people get to see, so it was surprisingly wholesome to share those photos and receive such supportive responses from my fellow Fetlifers. You guys are the best! 😊
Why anxiety makes you an expert in ignoring your boundaries…

I’ve been thinking a lot about boundaries lately – in particular how I can better at protecting them.
The tricky thing about boundaries is they’re not usually fixed. They often move around depending on the context (how you’re feeling that day, who you’re playing with etc). An obvious example for me is, some days I’m totally up for being caned, and other days a cane is too much. That boundary changes regularly.
Is Anti-Drama Culture in Kink Doing Us Harm?

This week’s podcast was the hardest I’ve ever recorded. It’s easy to share the positive aspects of kink—the great experiences and the joys of exploration. What’s hard is sharing the negative experiences. It would have been much easier to keep this private, but my podcast is about sharing my kink journey openly and honestly. I can’t do that if I’m only highlighting the good parts.
Harley’s Fantasy – Objectify Me

Want to hear one of my fantasies? Let me whisper it in your ear. This is one of my favourite’s when I’m in the mood for being objectified.
Harley’s Fantasy – Objectify Me
Used (Teaser)

Enter a dystopian future, where women have no rights, and are used as pleasure slaves to service the male workforce. Listen, as one pleasure slave is strapped inside a company “Relief Station,” with all her holes exposed.
Used (Teaser)
Please Daddy in the Shower
Are Open Relationships Less Committed?

One of the biggest misconceptions about open relationships is that they aren’t as committed as their monogamous counterparts. This is because people tend to confuse “commitment” and “monogamy.”
Vetting Questions I’m Using in 2024

If you are wanting 2024 to be a year of exciting kinky experiences (come on gangbang 🤞🏻) it’s likely you might need to do some vetting.
Personally, my vetting process could use an update! I did some research and found 10 questions I will be using this year to vet potential new play partners. (For the full list, listen to this week’s podcast)