As some of you may have noticed, I’ve recently started Camming on Chaturbate…
I wanted to give this a go as a way to further explore my exhibitionist side, as well as promote my podcast and audio art, and to make a bit of extra cash doing something I enjoy. 🤷♀️
To be honest, it’s been a bit of a rollercoaster, both in a good way and a bad way. I’m still experimenting on the platform atm and trying to work out a way to make it work for me. That is something I really like about Chaturbate. You are in charge of what you share.
The exhibitionist in me loooooved being topless on the internet, chatting / flirting with a bunch of strangers and not having to censor any of the smut that’s in my head 😈 haha. That said, I have also experienced what I can only describe as imposter syndrome – feeling like I am not sharing enough of myself to qualify as a “real” camgirl.
It is really important to me to set a positive example for others in this space. To me, that means living by my values of sex positivity, freedom of sexual expression and challenging social stigmas. I feel like being a camgirl is a way of exemplifying those values.
However, setting a positive example also means being aware of, and protecting my boundaries. In this case, that has meant not caving in to pressure to follow trends, or do anything on camera that I’m not comfortable with. Fortunately, my experience in kink has helped me get a LOT better at this!
I feel like there is no shortage of toys and vaginas on the site, so I want to find a way to still add to the platform, but perhaps offer something different or more creative.
At the moment I’m still experimenting with some ideas…
- I know people crave human connection, and I love to chat / flirt, so this feels like something I can offer.
- I also looooove cock, so, if people want me to share their cam and watch me react to what they’re packing, I’m also very down for that 🍆😉.
- I have a very active imagination, and would definitely enjoy whispering some of my favorite fantasies
- I definitely want to do some live sex shows with Slade over there, to satisfy my exhibitionism – but these will be more spontaneous.
- Another idea was a weekly Ask Me Anything. This is something I wanted to do on more conventional social media (ie facebook or instagram) but given the sexual nature of what I want to speak about, I would be instantly banned from those platforms. I thought Chaturbate might be the perfect substitute. 🤷♀️ Like I said, I’m just experimenting atm.
If you’re interested in following along with this journey, then I’ll keep posting updates here, as well as sharing in much more detail on my podcast (links below). If you have any thoughts or suggestions or the type of content you’d like to see from me, please share in the comments! I’d love to get your input.
Harley 🐰 xox
