Rollercoasters Don’t Have Safewords
As a kink educator, and safety-conscious human, I have a tendency to laser-focus on boundaries. I want people to explore kink with joy and with care. I want folks to come out of their scenes feeling like glorious, well-fucked superheroes—not emotionally wrecked and googling “is this trauma?”
But sometimes, the desire to keep everyone safe can start getting in the way of the whole point. Especially when it comes to edge play.