So last week I got tied up in ropes in my friend’s pool. I had my arms, wrists and legs tied, so I could not swim at allā¦ the experience was amazing, but not at all what I expected!
Water bondage is something Iāve been wanting to try for over a year now. Ever since I first saw a photo of this play in my fet feed, I have felt deeply drawn to experience how it would feel to be tied up in water.
I first brought up the idea at a New Years Party last year. Understandably, there was a mixed response from my kinky friends.
Mostly because water bondage is super dangerous. I mean, ropes are dangerous on their ownā¦ combine them with water, and thatās a recipe for disaster.
But this experience proved to me that this doesnāt have to be the case. With the right planning, people, and knowing your limits, itās certainly possible to have riskier experiences like this in a relatively safe way.
Of course things can still go wrong, but we all take risks everyday. In order to live a full life, at some point we have to decide what risks are worth taking.Ā
Tbh the risk factor was certainly part of the attraction to me. The whole point of this scene for me was to dabble in a little fear play.
I figured being bound in a pool, completely helpless, and at the mercy of my Dom – that this would give me a nice does of kinky anxiety! I wanted to feel my life literally in his hands, and experience the trust and intimacy that would generate.
Butā¦ that wasnāt at all the case.
It turns out, I have A LOT of trust in Slade, because this scene was not scary at all. In fact, I felt so safe in his arms that I was in a state of total peace and serenity the entire time š.
I donāt know why I was so surprised. Rope space is often deeply relaxing for me, and floating in a pool of warm water only seemed to intensify those good feelings.
Given I was so comfortable, Slade and I decided he would let me float around on my own. The moment I put my head back in the water and let myself float, it was like stepping into a different reality! As the water covered my ears, everything else faded away, except the sounds of my own breathing.
For the bunnies reading, think about being in a sensory deprivation tankā¦ but with ropes! š
This was a 10/10 kink experience, which for me is impressive given this wasn’t a sexual experience.
If youād like to hear and in-depth account of this scene, listen to the latest episode (#33) of my podcast Turns Out Iām Into It – available anywhere you listen to podcasts!
Till next time,
Play safe, and have fun!
Harley š° xx
