shame – Harley Rabbit

Babygirl – A Thought-Provoking Look at Kink, Shame, and Desire

Sharing sexual fantasies with your partner can feel like one of the most vulnerable conversations you’ll ever have. After all, these are deeply personal, intimate desires that you might not even have fully accepted yourself. It’s no wonder that many of us struggle to open up about them. But when done thoughtfully, sharing your fantasies can create a deeper connection, foster intimacy, and even make your relationship more fun and exciting.

How to Tell Your Partner What You’re Really Into… (Even If It’s Super Scary)

How do I feel less shame about my fantasies?

Have you ever had a fantasy you couldn’t stop thinking about—but felt too embarrassed or ashamed to even admit it to yourself? If so, you’re not alone. Shame around sexual fantasies is incredibly common, thanks to societal taboos, fear of judgment, and the internalized belief that our fantasies say something negative about who we are.

Who Really Has the Problem? A Reflection on Shaming Teenage Sexuality.

Have you ever believed something about yourself that wasn’t true? Maybe as a kid, you were told you were “not sporty” or “a crybaby,” and you ended up carrying those labels with you throughout your life because that’s what you were taught to believe.

Backstage: Shame story I left out of this week’s podcast (episode #31)

This week on the podcast we were talking about shame – particularly shame that comes up when our kinks don’t align with out personal values. I had a personal story that I cut out of the podcast – just because it’s a bit heavy- but I thought it would be more appropriate to share here.

What is “kinky” anyway?

I recently learned a framework in my studies that really challenged the way I feel about kink, and what is considered to be “kinky.” This framework is called the 3 Dimensions of Sex, and it basically tells us that there are 3 distinct types of sex that humans enjoy. All of which are common, healthy and as normal as one another. The 3 dimensions are Partner Engagement, Trance and Roleplay.

Backstage: What it was like being “spit-roasted” (episode #24)

Sharing some of the more personal stuff I left out of this week’s podcast episode (#24). What it was like to experience being “spit roasted” for the first time, as well as talking about some of the feelings of shame I went through after.

I don’t think I’m meant to be turned on by this… 😳

Have you ever been turned on by a scene in a movie that is definitely not supposed to be sexy? Well that’s what happened to me back