This week on the podcast we were talking about shame – particularly shame that comes up when our kinks don’t align with out personal values. I had a personal story that I cut out of the podcast – just because it’s a bit heavy- but I thought it would be more appropriate to share here.
I recently learned a framework in my studies that really challenged the way I feel about kink, and what is considered to be “kinky.” This framework is called the 3 Dimensions of Sex, and it basically tells us that there are 3 distinct types of sex that humans enjoy. All of which are common, healthy and as normal as one another. The 3 dimensions are Partner Engagement, Trance and Roleplay.
Sharing some of the more personal stuff I left out of this week’s podcast episode (#24). What it was like to experience being “spit roasted” for the first time, as well as talking about some of the feelings of shame I went through after.
Have you ever been turned on by a scene in a movie that is definitely not supposed to be sexy? Well that’s what happened to me back
