I was asked this exact question recently, and it really got me thinking… Since being involved in BD$M I have gotten a lot better at communicating boundaries, but I still find it very difficult to say “no.” There are so many valid reasons why this seemingly simple task is so difficult – it risks conflict, breaking connection, and hurting peoples feelings.
Collars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and are extremely popular kinky items! So why is that? Why are so many people into the idea of being collared and ‘owned?’ Why are so many others into the idea of ‘owning’ someone else? Particularly if that person is a beloved partner?
Let me tell you about my biggest Free Use Fantasy! This one involves having a weekend away with a group of consenting kinksters, to indulge in a free-use weekend – where everyone is available for the taking. This video is in addition to episode #25 of my podcast Turns Out I’m Into It – available everywhere you listen to podcasts!
‘Free use’ is a kink that’s been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately – which is causing a lot of people to
Ever fantasized about a threesome? If so, you’re definitely not alone. For women, romantic culture teaches us that we are NOT into threesomes. We are
Sharing some of the more personal stuff I left out of this week’s podcast episode (#24). What it was like to experience being “spit roasted” for the first time, as well as talking about some of the feelings of shame I went through after.
Remember that moment in Batman vs Superman when they are trying to kill each other, until they realise both of their mums are called “Martha”
Let me tell you an awkward story… About 2 years ago I caught up for a drink with a friend of mine – lets call
Picture me, about 18 months ago, in the pyjamas section of Big W. I was anxiously walking back and forth, holding a pair of pink,
So it’s not quite what the Fairy Godmother had in mind, but I had a great night out at the Townsville Erotic Ball! This was