My Services
You’re not here for small talk. You’re here because something inside you is ready to change… I help people explore their desires with curiosity, confidence, and zero shame.
What I Can Help With
You don’t have to “fix” your body to feel sexy. Whether you’re shy, feel undesired, or struggle to ask for what you want, we’ll work on building self-worth, confidence, and authentic desire from the inside out.
Support for challenges like erectile issues, premature ejaculation, or low libido. We’ll take a shame-free, holistic approach that considers emotional, relational, and nervous system factors—not just performance.
Stop people-pleasing, start saying no without guilt, and uncover the confident, authentic you underneath the conditioning. This includes working through trauma that may be holding you back.
Learn how to talk about sex, desires, needs and boundaries without shame or shutdown. I’ll support you in finding the words—and the confidence—to say what you need in a loving way.
It’s so common for long-term couples to slip into routine—or stop having sex altogether. Maybe you never quite found your rhythm, or the spark just faded over time. I’ll help you reconnect, rediscover your desire, and bring the turn-on back in a way that feels fresh, playful, and real.
Forget the default settings. You are unique and you deserve a relationship structure that actually fits you. Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy, exploring solo poly, or just want something more intentional, I’ll help you design a relationship that feels right. Because life it too short to live by other people’s rules.
Bored with vanilla and craving something more? Whether you have specific fantasies in mind or aren’t sure what you’re into yet, I can help you unpack your desires and figure out what really turns you on.
Together, we’ll explore how to bring those fantasies into the real world—through partnered roleplay, solo exploration, erotic writing, or working with sex workers in safe, aligned ways. There’s no one “right” path—just what feels authentic and exciting to you.
Maybe you know exactly what turns you on—but it feels too dark, too wrong, or too hard to say out loud. I specialise in working with clients who have taboo desires, including CNC, age play, and other fantasies often wrapped in shame.
Whether you want to explore these desires safely, understand where they come from, or stop feeling like you’re broken for having them—this is a space where nothing is too weird or too much.
New to kink? I’ll help you build skills, understand consent, find community, and explore safely.
Craft a profile that actually reflects who you are—and attracts the right kind of people.
What it's like to work with me...
Imagine a space where your deepest feelings and desires are listened to, and celebrated. During our private sessions, you will receive personalised support, with the compassion and confidentiality you need.
Depending on what you need, we might:
Talk things through—like you would with a trusted friend, who actually listens.
Explore your body’s signals with gentle somatic practices
Use guided visualisations or parts work to shift stuck patterns
Practise new skills together and get real-time feedback
Roleplay fantasies to uncover your turn-ons
Use erotic writing or journaling as a tool for discovery and libido.
During our sessions I will help you feel into your authentic desires, and build your confidence in the bedroom.
My Services
Private Coaching Online
These one-hour sessions are held via Zoom, so you can explore your desires from the comfort and privacy of your own home. Each session is tailored to what you need in the moment—whether that’s support with kink, relationships, communication, or reconnecting with yourself.
Workshops
A great alternative to coaching if you want to learn in community. I run live workshops on kink, communication, CNC, and more—including specialist sessions for Doms and subs. Check out the Events Page to see what’s coming up.
Coaching Packages (Coming soon)
Looking for ongoing support and deeper transformation? Coaching packages are currently in development and will be designed to support your goals over time—with added between-session support. Curious? Ask about upcoming packages during your session or connection call, and I’ll let you know when spots become available.
Book a Connection Call
Book a free connection call and see if it’s the right fit for you.
FAQ's
Sexologist literally means I study sex. Sexologist isn’t a protected term, and I am not clinically trained. However, I am trained in the Somatica® Method, and certified as a sexologist with the American Board of Sexology.
Somatic is just a fancy word for “body.” In today’s world we are constantly taught to ignore our body signals and “push through.” In my sessions I help clients get out of their head, and learn to listen to those important signals from the body. Your body can tell you a lot about what feels good and what doesn’t feel good to you.
No. Therapy is a different approach. While therapists generally maintain a level of detachment from their clients, I meet my clients on a more personal level, creating genuine intimacy, and sharing erotic energy during sessions. This means clients get to experience and practice genuine connection.
This means it’s ok to get turned on during a session, and to feel into your desire. This is a natural and beautiful part of being human. This doesn’t means we will be performing sexual acts during sessions, it just means it’s ok flirt and feel into your body’s signals.
No. Though you and your partner are welcome to book individually.
No. While my coaching style is more practical than what you would experience in sex therapy, we both keep our clothes on during sessions. If clients have found me through my camming work or fetlife profile, I expect that they understand that my boundaries are different for coaching work.
Guest spots are usually booked a few months in advance. However, if you’d like to be on the show, you can fill out this form and tell me about yourself and what you’d like to talk about on the show. If I think you’re a good fit, I will contact you to organise a date and time.